Friday’s Five: Lotions and Potions

I love hand cream, body butter, face cream, anything that comes in a jar, tube or bottle that makes your skin soft and leaves it smelling nice.

  1. Fruttini Coco Banana Body Butter

    Fruttini Coco Banana Body Butter

    I love this Fruttini Cocoa Banana Body Butter.  My sister got me this once as a present and I’ve been in love with it ever since.  The jar is huge so I sometimes put some in those little honey jars and keep them in my hand bag.

  2. Vaseline Cocoa Butter

    Vaseline Cocoa Butter

    Vaseline’s new cocoa butter smells so nice and feels so good on your skin, you keep imagining desert islands and drinking Pina Coladas on the beach.

  3. Johnson's Baby Lotion

    Johnson's Baby Lotion

    Johnson’s Baby Lotion is probably one of the most versatile lotion’s on earth.  It is gentle and you can also use it as a make up remover.  And who wouldn’t want to smell like a baby.  My daughter and I use it but whenever she catches me using it she squeals “baby baby baby” as if trying to say “that’s mine!”.

  4. Olay's Total Effects

    Olay's Total Effects

    Olay’s Total Effects is good face cream.  I just like the way it makes me feel like a wiser more mature woman, which might be why I use it.

  5. Palmet's Cocoa Butter

    Palmet's Cocoa Butter

    Palmer’s Cocoa Butter is perfect for hands that have been washing dishes or changing diapers.

I just realized I love Cocoa Butter, you must think I am a boring and predictable person  I actually love the regular Vaseline too, it’s awesome for tired feet and heels and when I want it to smell nice I add a drop of whatever essential oils I have and presto you have a super smelling cream.  I also love Jergen’s Musk cream too.

What are your favorite lotions and creams?


The New Crayons

large_crayola-crayonsOne of my happiest and most vivid childhood memories was the annual back to school shopping trip.  Browsing the aisles for the perfect pencil case, pencils and notebooks was just my sort of heaven when I was a child (it still is actually, I am always on cloud 9 just by looking at the rows of pens at any store).  My mom would melt the old broken down small bits and make rainbow crayons for us.  The yellow box just means fun to me.  I remember at school the kid with the largest box would be the coolest especially if it had one of those built in sharpeners.

So when I read that toddler my daughter’s age should be able to start learning how to hold crayons I realized that we don’t have any at home.  Up until I had her I always had coloring pencils or felt tip pens and play dough because I enjoy playing.  Yesterday I picked a pack of fat crayons because they should be easier to hold.  We opened the box today and she picked out a red crayon, She likes bright colo.  She held it and then attempted to put it into her mouth.  I picked out a purple on and started drawing swirls on a white sheet of paper, she was fascinated and then tried to put her crayon in her mouth again.  After a couple of failed attempts she threw the crayon away and went to play with her other toys.  I guess she’s still not ready yet, but when she is, we have crayons.

What reminds you of your early years at school?


Who Speaks for Islam [Book Review]

A friend of mine recommended that I read Who Speaks For Islam?: What a Billion Muslims Really Think a couple of weeks ago.  She sent me a message saying:

I just started reading a book called ‘Who speaks for Islam’, by Dalia Mogahed and John Esposito…
It seems great, giving statistics and REAL views of what Muslims really think, who we actually are etc…
It brings out what we are deprived of showing to the world, being the ’silenced’ majority :(
I can’t put the book down, it’s amazing!

WhoSpeaksForIslam-CSo I went and got the book last week and read it and really do think it is very interesting, educating and enlightening.  The book is highly recommended for policy makers and non Muslims who deal with Muslims because it gives an insight which is backed by numbers not conventional wisdom.

From the Gallup Website:

Who Speaks for Islam? is about this silenced majority. This book is the product of the Gallup World Poll’s massive, multi year research study. As part of this groundbreaking project, Gallup conducted tens of thousands of interviews with residents of more than 35 nations that are predominantly Muslim or have significant Muslim populations.

Even as a Muslim living in a Muslim country and a native of another Muslim country I found the book very interesting.  Perhaps because I had never thought about the fact that Muslims come from very different countries and backgrounds.  The analysis is simple, thorough and straightforward and impressive.  The data is deep and can be viewed as a very credible source to an insight to Muslim thoughts.

With only five chapters tackling:

  • Who are Muslims?
  • Democracy or theocracy?
  • What makes a radical?
  • What do women want?
  • Clash or coexistence?

By begining by explaining who Muslims are, what they believe and how different they are, the book sets the pace for the rest of the book and introduces the non Muslim to reality.  Data which was gathered by the polls clear many misconceptions even tho they might seem intuitive or sensible.  The poll’s results prove that Muslims want democracies in their countries, political radicals make up only 7% of the population and  women want to be treated fairly not necessarily equally.  Interestingly there are also lots of common views shared by Western poll takers with the Muslims which is not surprising, at the end of the day we are all human and share common needs, dreams and wants.

From the book:

While admiring much about the West, the majority of Muslim women do not yearn to become more like their Western counterparts.  While they favor gender parity, they likely want it on their terms and withing their own cultural context. [from What do women want]

To clarify the distinction between Sharia and “Islamic law” think of Sharia as a compass (God’s revelation, timeless principles that can not change) and Islamic law (fiqh) as a map.  This map must conform to the compass, but it reflects different times, places and geography.  The compass is fixed but the map is subject to change.[from What makes a radical?]

I think this book is an interesting read.


Happy People

“Happy people are patient. They wait for the right time when they go after what they want, and they avoid
unrealistic expectations with what they can’t control. ”
Christian Carter


Growing Younger and Benjamin Button

Benjamin ButtonA couple of weekends ago I watched “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button” with my husband.  He totally surprised me and liked the movie.  The guy surprised me even more the week before when he didn’t enjoy “Wanted”.  Guns, car chases, lots of action and Angelina Jolie in theory should make a great movie, but apparently he thought it was too surreal.  So I thought he would find BB boring or not interesting.  He actually liked it and so did I.

I don’t want to spoil the movie for those of you who haven’t seen it yet, but consider the idea of growing younger.  What if insteaf physically growing older you became younger, which is the whole idea behind the movie?  I keep thinking about it and realize it doesn’t make much difference.  It is just a matter of perception, we are born weak and unable to physically do the same things older people can not do.

I had this post all outlined in my head and had thought of all the things I wanted to write but now everything has totally gone.  Basically the movie was so human,  a woman who could not have children finds a very strange newborn at her doorstep and decides to raise him.  She needed him as much as she needed her.  Life is like that, by helping others we sometimes end up helping ourselves.

The old people in the home accept him as one of their own (he looks older than they are at the begining).  He blends in and stands out at the same time.  That is another thing about life.  Sometimes we look like everyone else but don’t share any common ideas, beliefs, hopes or dreams.  Some people learn to blend in and change their views while others, take a leap of faith and find other people to surround themselves with.  Either way ignoring the problem does not work.

Living with older people also helped him learn from their mistakes and aqcuire wisdom he otherwise wouldn’t have gained.  This is why people who have older relatives like grandparents or aunts and uncles can be wiser.  If you have someone close to you from an older generation learn from them, they are not going to be around forever.  If you learn to get past the war stories and “this country used to be great” stories there is alot to learn.  They know more about human nature because they have been around humans far longer than us and they know more about life because they have lived longer than us.

BB childlike honesty, curiousity and interest in everything around him were probably the most touching things in the movie.  He wanted to learn and explore everything.  Just because you think you are too young or too old to be doing something doesn’t mean that it is true.  Get out there and experience everything.

The love story was simple but very complicated because of the age thing.  He stood by the woman he loved even after she had pushed him away once and then he decided he had to leave her to spare her the pain of having to raise him and their daughter at the same time.  At first I thought it was a silly thing to do and then I realized that it was probably the best thing to do.  Daisy eventually did stay by his side until he passed away.  She cared for him while he regressed into an infant when he needed her the most probably because she was not to drained by having to deal with the years in between.

BB kept a journal which told his story.  We all have a story to tell, writing it down even if it will never be read might be an interesting and rewarding exercise.


Friday’s Five: Five Things I Didn’t Order

this is not the life i orderedA couple of days ago my sister was telling about someone with her at work who showed up wearing a t shirt that said “I didn’t order this life” and I thought it was hilarious.  She caught me on a day when I was feeling the exact same thing.  Then yesterday I was driving through a nice residential area which reminded me of the North Coast.  I don’t know if it was the sun, the way the villas looked or the music playing in the car but I suddenly felt good.  On a random train of thought I realized that even though this wasn’t the life I ordered, I had gotten lots of good things which I hadn’t ordered at all.

  1. Making Pizza at Home.  Never in a million years would I have thought I would learn to make pizza and actually enjoy it.  Thursday is pizza night at our place, I make the dough and then my husband usually comes in to play with the toppings.  It’s a fun thing we do.
  2. Baby Bath Time.  I think I love bath time more than my daughter does and she absolutely loves it.  She chases her rubber ducky, plays with the bubbles and chases the water down the drain when it’s time to leave the tub.  She used to hate bath time but now that she can sit in the big tub and play she’s enjoying it so much more.  I keep buying bath toys because they are so cute.  I love the way baby shampoo smells and use it myself too.  After her bath I rub her down with lavander oil and the atmosphere is so relaxed and she absolutely loves her baby massage too.  Never in a million years would I have imagined that giving a baby a bath could be so interesting and gratifying.
  3. Making Friends.  I spent the first two years in Kuwait pretty friendless and then out of the blue we meet a group of couples and become a group of friends.  They have made my life so much more colorful and interesting.  I had all but given up on finding like minded friends and then Allah sends a whole bunch of them my way.  I am eternally grateful and thankful for them.
  4. Microwaveable Chocolate Fudge.  This recipe is so easy and it’s just super.
  5. Nokia Maps.  I can find my way around much easier using it.  I don’t mind getting lost much because I know I will eventually get home and I enjoy discovering the world, but seriously being able to see a map and use GPS is a life saver sometimes.

There are so many other things that I didn’t order, some are good things and some aren’t but I am sure the good things I didn’t order are more than the good things I ordered but didn’t get or the bad things I didn’t order and get.


The server refuses to fulfill the request

Seriously? The server undersrands but doesn’t feel like it?twitter


Who has a stronger brand Mohamed Mounir or Amr Diab?

StatusAndCommentsMy sister asked this question and an interesting conversation took place.  How do you decide who is the stronger brand?  Is it by popularity, number of albums sold, popular songs, ads, albums released, marketability or by how much the artist makes in a concert?

Deciding on the criteria is always a very critical thing.  I did a quick search on facebook and found that Amr Diab has more groups dedicated to him than Mohamed Mounir and with lots of members whereas Mohamed Mounir has more fan pages with just as much fans.  How do you compare and decide?  One friend commented that Mounir has fans in Germany and all over Europe too which is true, but Amr Diab won the international Music Award too.  Every way you look at it, you realize that they are both very famous and have lots of fans and loyal followers.  Nevertheless my own personal opinion is that Amr Diab is a stronger brand because :

  • He was chosen by Pepsi to lead their campaigns which means he is more marketable.
  • He is a trend maker in terms of music and fashion.
  • His fans are more widespread and diverse and he has the ability to reach a wider audience.

That was my simple analysis, what do you think?

You can click on the image to read the discussion.


Chocolate Cheesecake in Minutes

chocolate-cheesecakeI had some friends over for dinner last night and it was awesome.  It was a simple affair; pizza, salads, crackers with cheese and chocolate cheesecake.  The cheesecake was the best thing on the menu.  I spent hours deciding what to make because I wanted to make something easy but very yummy.  I also didn’t want something that might not turn out so well, so after lots of thought I settled on chocolate cheesecake.  I looked at a couple of recipes but most of them needed ingredients I didn’t have like drozen whip and things like that.  Not being someone who follows recipes exactly as they are, I had to add toffee bits and walnutes to give it some crunch.  It was a hit, and my crowd is a tough one, cheesecake is a favorite but it is usually regular cheesecake with strawberry or berry topping.

Chocolate Oreo Base

  • 32 Oreros
  • 1 stick of butter

You can’t have chocolate cheesecake without a chocolate base.  I used Oreos but you can make a regular base using Digestive biscuits if you like and add some cocoa powder.  Crush them and add the melted butter and press into a spring form pan.  You can crush them in a food processor or just put them all in a plastic bag and smash them with a rolling pin or something.  I like using a food processor because washing it is less work than smashing them, I am lazy like that, plus you get a more uniform texture.  I used an 8 inch pan because honestly, that’s the only one I own, but I think a 9 inch pan would have worked better.  Press the mixture up against the sides as well because it looks much cooler that way.  You can always use less cookies and butter for a thinner base.  Put it in the refrigerator until it is nice and firm.  I left it for 4 hours, because I had to go do some shopping, but from experience, the longer you leave it the better.

Filling

  • 2 packages of 8 oz Philadelphia cream cheese
  • 1/4 cup granulates sugar
  • 3/4 cup brown sugar
  • 2 tablespoons on milk
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla
  • 8 oz of chocolate
  • Walnuts
  • Toffee

Beat the cream cheese, sugar, milk and vanilla until the sugar has been disolved into the mixture and it’s nice and fluffy.  I have a small hand mixer which is not really made for this kind of thing, but I make it do the job, a stand mixer would be awesome, actually a lovely cool pink Kitchen Aid mixer would be a dream, but I will keep on dreaming, I don’t have the space to store it and they’re quite expensive.

Melt the chocolate in the microwave or on a double burner.  I just put it in the microwave on high for 40 seconds, gave it a stir and it was perfect.

Add the chocolate to the mix, just wait a few minutes for the chocolate to cool first.  Once it’s all mixed, drop in the walnuts and toffee.  I just chopped them roughly.  I also got 2 packages of chewy toffees, the kind that have 6 or seven bits in them and quartered them so they would be small.  You could also use a Mars bar or anything else you like actually.  Fold everything in evenly and spoon into the pan over the base.  It should be nice and thick and even out the top.  Decorate it with the remaining toffee or eat it, do whatever you like, but I like a good looking cheesecake, because I think it it doesn’t look good I won’t eat it.  Pop it into the fridge.  Now you can lick the spoon and the bowl if you like,  yes, I lick the stuff, isn’t that why we make stuff in the first place?

Invite friends over, because good things are meant to be shared.  You could of course eat it all yourself, but don’t blame me if you get high on the sugar and go running around like a crazy monkey, but if you do, please ask someone to take pictures and post them on facebook.


What Really Happened?

Like everyone else and their brother I heard about the ruling in the Suzan Tamim murder trial last Thursday.  Personally I am confused.  I am not happy about it, not because I am a ST supporter or the other way around.  I just don’t understand why someone with money, power and connections would stoop that low.  Did he really want her dead?  Is he the devil like some people in the media would like us to believe?  Is this all just some sort of incredible Hollywood production orchestrated for our viewing and for teaching someone else a lesson?  It just smells wrong.  Like a huge conspiracy theory, and with the ban on publication and without knowing the whole story we will never really know the truth.

There are three things that are bothering me about this case.  The first being why and how could such a man resort to murder.  The second thing is how people can easily condemn anyone without searching for the truth.  Finally, is our judicial system fair for everyone?  All these ideas are not just related to the case itself but to basic human nature and specifically an Egyptian culture which is changing and evolving perhaps not to a better but a stronger creature.  “The marriage between money and power” like the media likes to call it is the reason behind all of the corruption in Egypt.  I have to disagree.  There have been many powerful and rich men and women in history but not all of them were corrupt.  Not all kings were unjust and not all rulers were dictators.  Corruption can not breed and grow unless everyone turns a blind eye.

What makes me wonder the most is why would someone like HTM would commit such a crime and why someone like Mamdouh El Sokkary who was an officer who had sworn to protect the people resort to murder, that is, if they really did it.  Did they believe they were immune to justice or did they think they would never get caught.  Did they think that they were above everyone else?  If they didn’t do it, then who did and why?  If he did do it, why did he really want her dead?

Second, everyone decided right away that he was either 100% guilty or 100% innocent depending on their ideologies and political leanings in life.  How can anyone make such a decision without seeing and hearing all of the evidence.  Just because someone is rich or powerful does not mean they are also evil.  On the other hand just because they don’t look like a criminal does not make them innocent.

Finally, what has happened to the judicial system in Egypt.  Suddenly it is condemning powerful people?  I don’t think powerful people should be above the law, I just find it fishy that some people can get away with murder and others can not.  It also makes me wonder if there is some sort of unfair play behind the curtains or under the table.  Mamdouh Ismail for example was completely declared innocent of the death of over a thousand people, no fine, no jail time, no nothing.  I just hope that this ruling is fair and just and not just some sort of payback for something we do not know or understand.

What happens now is the question?  Will they really be executed?  Will we learn that there are always consequences to our actions?   Will the law be applied to everyone?  So many questions and no answers.

On a very different note, I saw a police car today while I was driving and I realized that I can’t remember what Egyptian police cars look like, I could only recall what “ElBox” looks like.  Does anyone have the same feeling?


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