Hypothetical Question: Which virtue would you choose?

patience

Virtue (Latin virtus; Greek ἀρετή) is moral excellence of a person. A virtue is a trait valued as being good. The conceptual opposite of virtue is vice.

“In any contest between power and patience, bet on patience.” Prescott, W. B.

If you could have one virtue easily what would it be?  Which virtue would you want to give to the people you know?

Acceptance: To consider circumstances, especially those that can not be changed, as satisfactory.
Bravery: A quality of spirit that enables you to face danger of pain without showing fear.
Caution: Avoidance of rashness, attention to safety.
Curiosity: A desire to find out and know things.
Defiance: Bold resistance.
Determination: Firmness of purpose.
Devotion: A great love or loyalty, enthusiastic zeal.
Discretion: Being discrete in ones speech, keeping secrets.
Flexibility: Adaptable, able to be changed to suit circumstances.
Focus: Concentrated awareness and effort.
Forgiveness: To cease to feel angry or bitter towards a person or about an offense.
Generosity: Giving or ready to give freely, free from meanness or prejudice.
Gentleness: Moderate; mild, quite; not rough or severe.
Gratitude: Being thankful.
Honesty: Truthful; sincere; not lieing or cheating.
Humbleness: Modest; not arrogant or boastful.
Humor: The ability to perceive, enjoy, or express what is amusing, comical, incongruous, or absurd.
Impartiality: Fair.
Industry: Diligent, hardworking.
Innocence: Guileless, not guilty.
Justice: Fair, impartial, giving a deserved response.
Kindness: Friendly, helpful, well meaning.
Love: A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
Loyalty: Steadfast in allegiance to one’s homeland, government, or sovereign. Faithful to a person, ideal, custom, cause, or duty.
Majesty: Great and impressive dignity.
Moderation: The avoidance of extremes in one’s actions or opinions.
Obedience: Willingness to obey, to be controlled when necessary, to carry out orders.
Openness: Ready and willing to talk candidly.Unsecretive.
Patience: The ability to endure delay, trouble, pain or hardship.
Peace: Freedom from mental agitation; serenity.
Prudence: Wise or careful in conduct. Shrewd or thrifty in planning ahead.
Reliability: Can be trusted to do something.
Responsibility: Having control over and accountability for appropriate events.
Sensitivity: Heightened awareness of oneself and others within the context of social and personal relationships.
Simplicity: Straightforward; not complex or complicated. Unpretentious.
Sincerity: Free from pretense or deceit in manner or actions.
Sobriety: Serious, solemn and calm. Free from intoxication.
Spontaneity: Natural, not planned.
Steadfastness: Firm, resolute; determinedly unwavering.
Strength: Capable of exerting great force.
Toughness: Strong and durable; not easily damaged.
Tranquility: Serenely quite and peaceful; undisturbed.
Trust: Having confidence in others; lacking suspicion.
Trustworthiness: Able to be trusted or depended on; reliable.

Personally I would love to have patience, forgiveness and devotion.   I am more patient than I used to be,  I can’t forgive people when they have hurt me and my devotion is always lacking.

List of Virtues from VirtueScience.

7 Comments

  • At 2008.12.25 14:18, chika said:

    I wish I had forgiveness..

    • At 2008.12.25 19:48, jessyz said:

      If only they came in easy to swallow pills

      • At 2008.12.25 20:44, Forgiveness | Open_Secrets said:

        […] situations, there appears to be residual angst in the consciousness of those forgiving. Wikipedia – Forgiveness is typically defined as the process of ceasing to feel resentment, indignation or anger for a […]

        • At 2008.12.25 23:31, Solace said:

          I would have liked wisdom and compassion.

          • At 2008.12.26 01:44, only love said:

            I will pick patience, as I want everything quickly without waiting for it and I know this is not a right thing.

            • At 2008.12.27 07:25, gjoez said:

              Humor, Patience, Determination and Focus.

              • At 2008.12.27 14:28, jessyz said:

                @solace: wisdom is great too.
                @only love: I agree.
                @gjoez: Focus too.