Comments on: Friday’s Five: I’ve been told about the future … http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/ A smooth minty cream wrapped in rich bittersweet chocolate Mon, 06 Feb 2012 10:14:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: jessyz http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-5341 jessyz Mon, 27 Apr 2009 12:54:46 +0000 http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/?p=1123#comment-5341 Yeah Nerro, everything usually does. Yeah Nerro, everything usually does.

]]> By: Nerro http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-5334 Nerro Mon, 27 Apr 2009 10:20:08 +0000 http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/?p=1123#comment-5334 Love your 5s; especially #1: Everything will sort itself out eventually So true Love your 5s; especially #1: Everything will sort itself out eventually
So true

]]> By: jessyz http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-5266 jessyz Sun, 26 Apr 2009 05:18:12 +0000 http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/?p=1123#comment-5266 It's a great thing Mashallah that your chosen one is relaxed and patient. I have found that patience really does fix most problems in life. It is the little nagging things that usually put a strain on a marriage, if the couple knows how to respect one another and communicate most of these issues can be fixed. That doesn't guarantee never bickering though. You will argue, disagree, fight but in the end you will learn how to make up and not step on each others boundaries. It’s a great thing Mashallah that your chosen one is relaxed and patient. I have found that patience really does fix most problems in life. It is the little nagging things that usually put a strain on a marriage, if the couple knows how to respect one another and communicate most of these issues can be fixed. That doesn’t guarantee never bickering though. You will argue, disagree, fight but in the end you will learn how to make up and not step on each others boundaries.

]]> By: jessyz http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-5265 jessyz Sun, 26 Apr 2009 05:14:58 +0000 http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/?p=1123#comment-5265 I have two takes on the issue of divorce in the first year. 1. The couple was not compatible from the beginning, this is sometimes because of the way we view marriage as the ends to the means instead of a means to an end and couples just want to get married regardless of whether they should or not. 2. The couple has unrealistic expectations and does not know how to compromise. I have two takes on the issue of divorce in the first year.
1. The couple was not compatible from the beginning, this is sometimes because of the way we view marriage as the ends to the means instead of a means to an end and couples just want to get married regardless of whether they should or not.
2. The couple has unrealistic expectations and does not know how to compromise.

]]> By: jessyz http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-5264 jessyz Sun, 26 Apr 2009 05:12:54 +0000 http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/?p=1123#comment-5264 Thanx Thanx

]]> By: asoom http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-5261 asoom Sun, 26 Apr 2009 04:10:21 +0000 http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/?p=1123#comment-5261 It totally makes sense to believe that the first year of marriage will be the hardest. I mean just because you love someone, it doesn't mean you can't get annoyed, angry, and even sometimes feel like you just hate them and these feelings could soon easily come out during the difficult times of adjusting. I hate sharing a bathroom with anyone. I can't imagine having to share a tiny apartment and a bedroom and a closet! Alhamdulilah the one I want to marry has thus far proven to be a very relaxed and patient person. I on the other hand really need to work on being understanding and patient before the times comes when I'll really be sharing everything with someone else. It totally makes sense to believe that the first year of marriage will be the hardest. I mean just because you love someone, it doesn’t mean you can’t get annoyed, angry, and even sometimes feel like you just hate them and these feelings could soon easily come out during the difficult times of adjusting. I hate sharing a bathroom with anyone. I can’t imagine having to share a tiny apartment and a bedroom and a closet!

Alhamdulilah the one I want to marry has thus far proven to be a very relaxed and patient person. I on the other hand really need to work on being understanding and patient before the times comes when I’ll really be sharing everything with someone else.

]]> By: gjoez http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-5191 gjoez Fri, 24 Apr 2009 21:29:43 +0000 http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/?p=1123#comment-5191 7elwa deh ya Jessyz, ya reet koll el nas te3raf enn the first year is the toughest, because I look around and I see people unwilling to compromise and actually get a divorce fe awel sana!! Begad 7aga tedaye2..:( 7elwa deh ya Jessyz, ya reet koll el nas te3raf enn the first year is the toughest, because I look around and I see people unwilling to compromise and actually get a divorce fe awel sana!!

Begad 7aga tedaye2..:(

]]> By: inas http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/2009/04/fridays-five-ive-been-told-about-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-5185 inas Fri, 24 Apr 2009 18:20:06 +0000 http://www.chocolatemintsinajar.com/blog/?p=1123#comment-5185 nice article nice article

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