Just Focus On One Thing

satisfactionIf at any given moment in your life you feel lost, frustrated or unhappy, look for the one thing that is going right in your life, focus on it, enjoy it and revel in it.  Soak up that happy positive emotion, because no matter how bad it might seem there is always that one thing.  If you are the kind of person who thinks that everything has to be perfect for you to be happy, rethink your strategy, no one lives a perfect life.  Look deep enough and you will find that even the people with the seemingly most enviable lives have their problems and deep dark secrets.


  • At 2009.11.17 19:04, reema said:

    yeah but sometimes its easier said than done

    • At 2009.11.18 15:54, jessyz said:

      Of course, but just the realization is liberating

      • At 2009.11.18 01:39, Organica said:


        • At 2009.11.18 15:55, jessyz said:


          • At 2009.11.18 09:42, ze2red said:

            Thanks for the advice :)

            • At 2009.11.18 15:58, jessyz said:

              I hope it is useful

              • At 2009.11.19 13:01, gjoez said:

                Right Now ya Jessyz, I can’t find one thing going right with my life. Everyone I know seems to have a better idea of how I should be leading my life than the way I already am.

                I think they are right.

                No wait, my dad called a couple of days ago and told ‘you are a great person, don’t let anyone make you think otherwise.’. But I reached a stage that I don’t believe him.

                • At 2009.11.21 10:50, jessyz said:

                  Well don’t you think you have a great dad and an awesome family, that would be one thing. :-)

                  • At 2009.11.22 21:39, KJ said:

                    Sadly you would have to refocus back on the rest of the stuff, but for a short while you can enjoy some blissful happiness!

                    • At 2009.11.23 09:17, jessyz said:

                      That’s the thing, that one thing keeps changing, and the smart thing to do is while you work on things that aren’t working keep in mind that there are things in your life that are doing just fine.