Yes, you! And might I also say that it is time we call it what it is, violence against women, which is becoming a norm in Egypt. Sadly, many people who say they are against sexual harassment are actually supporters without realizing it.
If your first response is, she got attacked because of how she was dressed or where she was, then I am sorry you are a sexual harassment supporter. No one (regardless of their gender) should be abused or harassed for any reason. Period. Why is that so hard to understand? When people say things like women are like candy and need to be covered up, they really are saying that men can not control themselves and are rapists waiting to happen. Women are scientists, doctors, engineers, fighter pilots, moms, referees, etc. They are not candy. They are not diamonds. They are human beings who have the right to dress as they choose without having to justify it or be punished for it.
If you think that sexual harassment affects a woman’s honor (شرف ) then you also have a problem. Her humanity, dignity, soul, heart, psyche, body and more have been violated, but not her honor. Her honor is only defined by her actions not what someone else does to her. It is time we stop being dinosaurs and realize that honor has nothing to do with it.
If you are a man and feel that your honor is being violated because a woman was harassed/raped/abused/attacked please take a number, have a seat and wait until hell freezes over. This has nothing to do with you. You do not own women. Your honor is only defined by your actions not by what happens to someone else. Your job is not to harass women. Full stop. If as a decent person (regardless of gender) you choose to stand up against harassment then thank you, that means you have chosen the right thing.
If you feel that videos of attacks make us look bad in the eyes of the rest of the world, then please go drink some arsenic. The fact that you believe that half the population lives in constant fear of being abused or harassed is less important than our collective image means you really need some therapy. I totally agree that the privacy of victims needs to be protected, they at least deserve that from us. But covering an attack up or pretending that they are not an epidemic is just sick and stupid.
We have a serious problem in Egypt. It is called misogyny , as defined by wikipedia
Misogyny /mɪˈsɒdʒɪni/ is the hatred or dislike of women or girls. Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including sexual discrimination, denigration of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification of women. Misogyny has been characterised as a prominent feature of the mythologies of the ancient world as well as of various religions.
If you find any way to blame a victim or justify an attacker then you are a misogynistic inhumane creep that needs to find a hole in the ground to bury yourself.
If you think you don’t support violence against women, but see people blaming the victim and don’t say anything that makes you a supporter. If you lead men to believe that this is about their honor and don’t right their views, then you are supporting more violence against women. If you want to hide the fact that these attacks happen then you are a supporter.
If you do not take a stand against crimes against women, you are supporting them. If you belittle efforts that are made to stand against these crimes then maybe you support these crimes.
If the only solution to this problem in your view is violence against men then this is another problem, it is called misandry. We can not fight violence with violence. We can only start educating everyone on how to stop the current epidemic and to make sure it never happens again. We need strong laws and implementation of these laws. We need to feel safe by knowing that we are protected, not that we need to walk around carrying weapons to fight back.
A stand, is long overdue.