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Blogger Block

I have a serious case of bloggers’ block.  It’s not that I have nothing to say, I just don’t feel like communicating with the world.  It’s not just blogging but in life in general.

On Commenting

I am really curious about why and how often people leave comments on blogs.  Personally, I usually leave a comment when something is really interesting and I have something to add.  Commenting sometimes is a great conversation starter and creates an opportunity for an even more interesting idea to evolve.  You can support ideas, argue logic and so many other things.

Please let me know by answering the poll and leaving a comment on what you really think about blog commenting.

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Thank you for all the comments. Thank you for making blogging a much pleasurable activity, without your comments it would have been just like talking to myself. Your comments add value to this blog as much as the posts themselves. I am hoping to see more of your comments.

What can we do for Ghazzeh?

I have been thinking of how we can really help instead of just being passive.

We can:

  • Be depressed.  This does not do anything for the people who need help.
  • Pray.  Helps.
  • Blame Egypt.  I really hate this one and think it changes nothing just creates lots of anger and resentment on both sides.
  • Demonstrate.  This is one I always have mixed feelings about.  On one hand we have to say something yet on the other it has always proven to be an inneffective method of change in Arab countries.  If you can hold a peaceful demonstration with a list of changes that the government can do then by all means go ahead.  Otherways I think holding donation collection rallies might be a better idea.
  • Donate.  Helps.  Just make sure you find a good organization that knows how to get help to the people who need it.
  • Understand our politics.  Yes we need to understand who are the stakeholders, how they respond to trouble, what they have done in the past and how we can change it.
  • Understand our history.  This might seem like it does not help a lot, but I believe it does because to understand the current situation we can look back at what happened in the forties, the sixties and in the seventies.  The dates are different but the methodologies stay the same.
  • Educate our children.  The problem will not go away today even if the bombing stops.  Our children and the younger generations need to understand what is going on.  They need to be politically savvy, they need to understand the history of the whole area and understand how things work and how they can help.  Explaining to a child why you are donating money, clothes or medication builds a long term understanding of what is effective and what isn’t.
  • Learn from the enemy.  Lasto Adri posted an interesting link in her shared bookmarks which just shows how the Israeli’s try to help their cause.  I will not post the link because I don’t want to help his SEO but you can see from the screen shot that the ideas are pretty smart.  We are bloggers, users of Facebook, Twitterers and smart people.  Here are some examples of what people are already doing:

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Just read what they are doing, stop and think.  Put your anger and intellect into good use.

  • If you are a blogger, blog about it.  Stay level and smart, respond to hate comments wisely and smartly.
  • If you use Twitter, tweet about it.
  • If you live in a country where you can change your politics rally and lobby for the cause.
  • If you use Facebook, post articles and blog posts to point your non Arab friends to fairer information.
  • If you are a cartoonist or an artist, express yourself and post on deviantart, facebook, blogs or wherever you can.
  • If you are a teacher teach our younger generations.
  • If you are part of Global Voices then translate articles and educate the rest of the world.

Be positive and active.

No matter what you do or who you are do the right thing.  This problem will not go away in a day or even a week, the problem stays as long as Palestine is occupied.  This problem stays as long as we are negative and passive.  This problem stays as long as we do nothing and only moan and blame others for our misfortunes.  We are not all Ghazzeh, we go back to our warm homes, turn on our electricity, put loads of laundry in the washing machine with lovely smelling softener, curse if someone cuts us off in the street in our shiny cars, pick up our kids from their fancy schools and have no idea what they are going through.  We do not know what it is like living in constant everyday hell.  We do not mourn family members in the dozens and we do not.  We are not immune, we live in countries that have borders with the occupation and we can be victims when they choose.

If you can do nothing then pray silently and remember the civillians who are being killed every day.

Change the Channel

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Part of the Change the Channel Initiative

These are sad days, the situation in Gaza keeps getting worse, people are being killed, starvation and other catastrophes are hitting the world hard.

You have two options, you can either glue your pretty little eyes to the TV, drive your blood pressure up Mount Everest or you can do something about it.

  • Donate to help the people in Gaza.  Jad has a very thoughtful post on that issue.
  • Pray for them, yourself and anyone who needs it.  Prayer is meditative and has a calming effect.
  • Turn the TV off.  Get out of the house and do one good deed.
  • Take a walk.  Fresh air is good for the lungs and the mood.
  • Send an email to a friend.  Pour out all of your feelings, sending it or not is up to you.
  • Buy flowers.  Keep them or give them to someone else.
  • Smile at random strangers (you can smile without being creepy).
  • Remember Ahmad Helmy’s show “Man Sayarba7 elBonBon?).  Play TV presenter and rattle the kids.
  • Bake a cake.
  • Invite a friend over for coffee.
  • Play games with friends.  Football or scrabble, whatever your style the company is sure to make it better.
  • Read up on history, understanding the current situation by looking back in our own history makes everything so much clearer.
  • Taste something completely new.
  • Buy some crayons and draw a self portrait, it’s very therapeutic.
  • Still got the TV itch?  Check out the telesales channels, the “get married” channels or the food channel.

Guest Post at The Positivity Blog

I had a guest post published on the Positivity Blog about building your own support group in a new country a couple of days ago.

Grammar, punctuation and spelling in blogs

It totally annoys me that many bloggers disregard the basic rules of grammar, punctuation and spelling.  Spelling mistakes annoy me the most because using spell check is a 2 minute thing that makes posts look cleaner and easier to read.  Yes it is so easy to make mistakes, it’s also very easy to type a post and “Publish it ” without thinking twice.  Just a quick read will make sure you catch the little errors that when left in make it look like you don’t care much about your blog. The tricky part is realizing that you wrote “proposes” instead of “purposes” and your post makes no sense now.   If you think in Arabic please write in Arabic, some posts really only make sense in Arabic but if you are going to do a literal translation of an Arabic phrase that means gibberish in English like “don’t cut my bread I run on children”, please refrain.

5 Common Mistakes that make you dumb
5 Writing Tips for Better Blogging
How to Write a Better Weblog

I’m cool

Yes, MamaMona thinks so, and gave me an award to prove it.  Thank you MamaMona :-) .

“I’m choosing three blogs to pass it on to and asking that they tell us why they started blogging and then pass the love on to three of their favorite blogs.”

Aaaah three blogs?  But I have way more than three favorite blogs.  Doesn’t everybody?

I started blogging out of loneliness.  How pathetic is that?  I had started the blog before I got married and moved to Kuwait and hardly posted.  Suddenly I found myself all alone in a country where I didn’t know anybody, so I started blogging.  I think I enjoyed the fact that I was writing something and maybe someone “outthere” was reading.  Now it’s more of a hobby/addiction.  I’ve met lots of wonderful bloggers whom have become my friends and truly do make my days so much nicer.

My three chosen blogs:

RJayUpUpAndAway by RJay.  It is not nepotism, she really is an amazing writer with an over active imagination.  She rows (and falls into murky lakes)wants to be a professional skateboarder when she grows up and has decided to get out of the sand and into the clouds.

Ramblings of the disoriented mind by Juka.  She is smart, funny and writes short stories.  I promised to cite her as my role model when she scratches something off her bucket list.

Not Green Data by Tarek.  He has a very interesting list of Egyptian Evil Empires which includes microbus drivers, explains how to use an elevator and compiled a list of Egyptian blogging Genres.

And I couldn’t help myself, I had to fix the grammatical error in the above image (yes, I do have too much time on my hands).