{"id":2272,"date":"2018-04-19T18:21:36","date_gmt":"2018-04-19T15:21:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.chocolatemintsinajar.com\/craft\/?p=2272"},"modified":"2018-04-19T18:21:36","modified_gmt":"2018-04-19T15:21:36","slug":"fringe-dress-and-going-to-the-places-that-scare-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chocolatemintsinajar.com\/craft\/2018\/04\/fringe-dress-and-going-to-the-places-that-scare-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Fringe dress and going to the places that scare me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2273\" src=\"http:\/\/www.chocolatemintsinajar.com\/craft\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/FringeDressWIP.jpg\" alt=\"\" height=\"450\" width=\"750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chocolatemintsinajar.com\/craft\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/FringeDressWIP.jpg 750w, https:\/\/www.chocolatemintsinajar.com\/craft\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/FringeDressWIP-300x180.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I first saw the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.chalkandnotch.com\/shop\/fringe\/\">Fringe Dress<\/a> by Chalk and Notch on Instagram and thought it was a gorgeous pattern. But I was also terrified of it. It has two views. One has buttons, the horror! And the other has a complicated neckline that means needing facings and the use of fusible interfacing. More horror!<\/p>\n<p>But I remembered that I had read Pema Ch\u00f6dr\u00f6n&#8217;s book The Places that Scare You and I was determined to go there. She says &#8220;Live your life as if it were an experiment&#8221; and &#8220;Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what it needs to&#8221;. And I guess I needed to stop being worried about failing or things being hard and start experimenting more often. Maybe button holes would magically disapear if I just learned how to make them.<\/p>\n<p>I bit the bullet and bought the pattern. I also decided to get it printed at a copy shop. I don&#8217;t have a large table or space to peice the pages. It is a game changer! I walked out the door, 2 minutes later with two A0 pages of my pattern. Obviously, the person working there had never printed a sewing pattern and was really curious about it, too.<\/p>\n<p>I cut the fabric and put it away for the night. I was totally determined to slow down enough so it wouldn&#8217;t get exhausting or frustrating. The next day I started sewing. I had decided to make view A with view B sleeves. I don&#8217;t like sleeve tabs in general. <\/p>\n<p>The instructions are so detailed with lots of pictures that I felt someone was holding my hand during the entire process. I didn&#8217;t have to second-guess myself or google things to figure out how to do it. I even lengthened the skirt and redrew the pattern because I am taller and don&#8217;t like my dresses too short.<\/p>\n<p>I pressed every seam. Didn&#8217;t hurry myself at all and tested making buttonholes on scrap fabric. I even tested fusing the interfacing so I knew how much heat and pressure to use. I even undid the skirt because the gathering didn&#8217;t look right and did it again. I am glad I took my time. By the end of the day I had a wonderful dress. 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:550; line-height:18px;\"> View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/a> <\/p>\n<p style=\" margin:8px 0 0 0; padding:0 4px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BhmOWGwHkbv\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading&amp;utm_campaign=embed_locale_control\" style=\" color:#000; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none; word-wrap:break-word;\" target=\"_blank\">I wore my fringe dress out today. I made two changes to the pattern. I lengthened the skirt. I think I could add another couple of inches. I also took out the back darts after trying it on because  they just looked off on me. Other than that I made it as the pattern said.  The details in the instructions made it a lot easier than I was expecting. Can\u2019t wait to make another one. That is a total of 3 dresses and one pair of pants this year. There is a cardigan minus the sleeves, a black dress that is almost ready and I already cut fabric for a white top. I still need another two projects to hit my goal of nine. . . . . . . #memadeeveryday #handmadewardrobe #sewing #fringedresspattern #chalkandnotchpatterns #makenine2018<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\">A post shared by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jessyzz\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading&amp;utm_campaign=embed_locale_control\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px;\" target=\"_blank\"> Yasmin Gamal<\/a> (@jessyzz) on <time style=\" font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px;\" datetime=\"2018-04-15T16:08:45+00:00\">Apr 15, 2018 at 9:08am PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Techinically, this is my wearable muslin and I intend to make another one. I would lengthen the skirt a little bit more the next time. And use a slightly more drapey fabric, but other than that I don&#8217;t think I would make any changes.<\/p>\n<p>I am glad I went to my scary place, because it turned out, it wasn&#8217;t even that scary.<br \/>\nAnd no, button holes still exist. \ud83d\ude41 But now I know I have got this!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I first saw the Fringe Dress by Chalk and Notch on Instagram and thought it was a gorgeous pattern. But I was also terrified of it. It has two views. One has buttons, the horror! 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